Posts by Iggy Kay:

What are the Most Popular Fetishes in the Gay Community?

Some day, our generation may well be remembered as the start of the “introverted sexual revolution.”Maybe we’re not enjoying as much free love as the boomer hippies, nor are we getting it on as much as the Lost Generation bohemians. But we’re for sure the generation that explores everything, tries new things, and finds sexual and […]

The Origin of the Term Twink – And How the Meaning Changed Over the Years

You’re in a crowd, having a good time. Suddenly, you hear a voice. You look around the room until someone finds your eyes. They smile, and then you hear them say the curious word…“Twink!”For a moment, you’re not sure if you’re being harassed or if the other person is innocently flirting. Is it a slur, […]

What is the Lesbian Marriage Divorce Rate and What Does It Imply?

The worst stereotypes are the ones that seem to be true, and it’s a point of contention that lesbian marriages, especially in the United States, seem to have a higher divorce rate compared to both heterosexual couples and gay male marriages.First of all, is this true, or is it a myth? For that matter, if […]

A Guide to Chem Sex–Chasing the Ultimate (Enhanced) Orgasm

Throughout history, humankind has loved to search for treasure – whether that’s finding gold, conquering lands, or even discovering ways to multiply sexual intensity!After all, what is a normal orgasm compared to Sexual Nirvana?For millennia, we have been fascinated by the idea of achieving sexual bliss – something beyond just ejaculation and temporary euphoria.When orgasm […]

Gay Polyamory–What Does It Mean to Be Gay, Poly, and Out?

So we’re supposed to believe that people are all living one way and secretly thinking the exact opposite? That’s ridiculous.-Sal Romano, Mad MenYour great gay grandfather was closeted in 1940s Mainstream America. He had to work extra hard just to appear heterosexual and monogamous to others, with his beard wife (your lesbian grandmother), and even […]

Exploring the Gay Cuckold Fetish And How It Relates to Queer Culture

“Jim, would you prefer a nature metaphor or a sexual metaphor?”If you answered “Nature, please,” you may find the cuckoo bird’s sex life quite fascinating.Cuckoos are “brood parasites,” meaning the female cuckoo bird lays her eggs in the nests of other bird species.The unsuspecting host birds will incubate and raise the cuckoo chick as their […]