Posts by Iggy Kay:

Gay Polyamory–What Does It Mean to Be Gay, Poly, and Out?

So we’re supposed to believe that people are all living one way and secretly thinking the exact opposite? That’s ridiculous.-Sal Romano, Mad MenYour great gay grandfather was closeted in 1940s Mainstream America. He had to work extra hard just to appear heterosexual and monogamous to others, with his beard wife (your lesbian grandmother), and even […]

Exploring the Gay Cuckold Fetish And How It Relates to Queer Culture

“Jim, would you prefer a nature metaphor or a sexual metaphor?”If you answered “Nature, please,” you may find the cuckoo bird’s sex life quite fascinating.Cuckoos are “brood parasites,” meaning the female cuckoo bird lays her eggs in the nests of other bird species.The unsuspecting host birds will incubate and raise the cuckoo chick as their […]

Locked in Lust: Understanding Gay Chastity

Let’s face it, some people are so “vanilla”, the most exposure to chastity kink they’ve had was Maid Marian in Robin Hood: Men In Tights. Remember the “chastity belt” gag, and the “Let’s call a locksmith” line at the end?Well, even if you don’t, you’d assume that chastity has something to do with barring someone […]

Gay Erotic Hypnosis: How to Safely Penetrate Your Subconscious Mind

Several years ago, back when the internet was more like the Wild West – and not so much a giant mall of the same old content – I was looking for gay erotica and stumbled upon a bizarre idea. A site offered to “warp my mind” and transform me into a “bimbo slut”, with optional “Ass […]

How to Bottom – 10 Steps to Prepare For Anal Sex

Let’s face it… Anal sex is terrifying to receive. Yet, in a cruel twist of fate, it’s also one of the most amazing eye-rolling sensations you can experience.If you do it RIGHT.Anal play can be amazing or downright painful, depending on how you approach it. If you’ve got a prostate, you might just have the […]

Best Hookup Sites for Casual Dating and Local Hookups (2025)

Hookup sites have completely transformed the way people connect, and I, for one, am grateful. There’s no longer a need to meet people in bars; just hop on one of these apps and send a flirty message.Though it might seem a bit forward to some, this new dating game has opened up endless opportunities for […]